Many people’s first thought in this context is of love spells – ways of making another person find them sexually attractive and desirable.
In theory, love spells should be unconditional and this type should be entirely unselfish and free from self-interest.
However, most of the time they obviously cannot be so, unless they are performed by a third party, someone outside the longed-for relationship who is totally dispassionate.
To try to influence someone else directly may well go against the ethics of many practitioner and magicians, though such spells do tend to be the stock-in-trade of many Eastern practitioners.
Anyone who wishes to experiment with love spells needs to be aware that such spells come under the category of bidding spells and therefore must be used carefully.
Love spells are often accompanied by gifts or love philtres, which are also meant to have an effect on the recipient.
